Photo by Zeke Du Plessis
The name of the town we’re in is Hadjer Hadid–named after these heavy iron rocks that you see all over. I picked up a small rock to keep. I nearly lost it when Zeke found it in my camera bag and almost chucked it. He asked me about it, and I rescued it.
My heart is heavy here. The people here have been through things I can’t imagine. It’s the DarFur refugees you hear about on TV. They have been forced from their home villages by the Janjaweed militia who burned their homes, raped their women, and killed people indiscriminately. Actually violent acts have happened to the Masalite community on both sides of the boarder, so it’s not just the refugees that have suffered. The local community has suffered, too. I’m thinking–what does all this mean to me. I’m expecting to see so many people that look like they are suffering. But, life seems quite normal, aside the occasional passing UN tank–there’s at least two of them here. It feels safe here. The presence of UN peace keeping troops keep it that way.
I feel an incredible sense of community here. People seem to take care of each other. Our co-workers told us about how the refugees shared their burdens together and helped each other in their recovery from what they experienced. The people here are resilient. When we talk to them, they don’t talk much about how much they have suffered. They are talking about the future–about growing in their knowledge, about helping their children to have a better life–and they are looking towards their return to Sudan. How could they even think about returning to Sudan? I can’t imagine. But, it’s their home.

On sort of a side note, this sense of community is demonstrated also in how they talk. When you greet a small group, very often everyone in that group responds to you–in UNISON. I’ve never seen, er heard, anything like it. Of course, the greetings are all in Chadian or Sudanese Arabic or Masalit, but if the conversation were in English, it might go something like this:
You: “How are you?”
Group: “We are fine.”
You: “How are your children?”
Group: “They are doing well.”
You: “What are you doing?”
Group: “We are here for a ceremony”
…and on and on…I mean, eventually, you do get individual responses, and this group response thing doesn’t happen all the time. It reminded me of the chorus in a Greek drama, without a script!
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